Rules of Engagement w/ Partners in ♥

As much as I want to tell the world how in love and happy I am everyday but still blogging and writing won't be enough. Lately, I have been realizing a lot of things especially on LOVE ! (bahala ug masumhan mo ana nga word ) but it's the only thing that makes the world go round ... yes! I love to use that phrase even if it means an over use Cliche. HAHAHA ...

*Serious mode again! Back to the realization thingy. I met and talked about someone who's got a more experience of having a love life. Itago na lang natin  siya sa pangalang NANA, she and her boyfriend was quite the ideal type of couple in a relationship they've been through a lot ( big emphasis on A LOT), they've been through LDR (Long Distance Relationship) and went to a long term relationship, they've been for six years now and still they are going strong. I wonder if my ka-in-a-relationship today would reach that... hmmp ?! (think*think*think*). Well, I've been to a two-year relationship, he was my recent-slash-past boyfriend, "EX", that's would most people would refer them. It's sad that it didn't work out, rather, WE DIDN'T WORK OUT!... but frankly, the experience helped me a lot to grow as a person and of who I am today. Though sometimes we expect a lot (again) from who we are with right now. I don't expect my life to happen just like in fairy tales but I would be glad if I could just put a little fairy dust in it.

Let me share to you the rules NANA told me when you're in are a relationship, these rules would help you to ponder trust, understanding and most importantly LOVE! ( I would really appreciate if other girls, would follow these tips and certain things a woman should learn)

1. NEVER TALK ABOUT YOUR PAST/EX BOYFRIEND in front  OF YOUR PRESENT BOYFRIEND.

     ---I know this is common. Boyfriend tends to be annoy whenever you're pulling off and insisting your ex-boyfriend in certain situations and topic. If still insist, then  you're boyfriend presumes that you still care for your past BF.

2. One day a week...

       ---- One day a week, I really like the way she said this to me. Nana was inspired of an article posted on the internet "Rules in a relationship"  and I quote "Decide on one day every week you can spend together, no one else invited.  Everyone is busy; designating together-time is healthy for any relationship" (end quote).  I always wanted to have these kind of arrangement but ...

        "How will I ever STEAL his time???"

                  ---- I have wish of that one day week dream but right now at this point it's too impossible.. why? because both of us have our own commitments and we are still students both working for our future... esei :P... 

    I would love to share to you my favorite excerpt from the movie "The Vow".

This line was the wedding vow made by Leo who played by my idol "Channing Tatum" to Paige which played by the talented actress " Rachel McAdams"

In the movie Time was the biggest cheater, and no matter what Leo do in order to steal time for his wife he failed because again as the doctors said "Her memories will come back in TIME". My expectations about the movie failed when it came to the ending part which was so *damn BITIN, never did Paige's memory came back.

You'll see how important that someone unless they are all gone :'(

So make time with the one's you love before we run out of it.

3. Never fail to tell your boyfriend how you love him and how sorry you are even if it means writing a LOVE LETTER!

              ---- love letter? but ... but ... SERIOUSLY??? (^insert a big awe face here) this was my reaction after hearing this... I;m not artistic nor poetic, I'm not good in grammar and I somehow mispronounced words. Is this even necessary? HAHAHA XD... too much of a drama princess ayt? Nana told me, if he's truly an exemption , well endorse your creative thinking skills, somehow it's much more easy to write than to tell him personally and she even added " AT LEAST VISIBLE AND PORTABLE" , He might keep it in a wallet and read it everyday, somehow guys are shy to show their sweet little side. It's nice to have something that you are proud of and he's proud of. 

My thoughts are ranting...

   "But I'm a girl? Girls are suppose to be the ones receiving love letters right?"

Wouldn't it be nice that while everything gets topsy - turvy, you were there to help him ease by just those sweet words coming from your mind and been blown out by your mouth? Love letters signifies a support of a woman to man and can be good navigation for a healthy relationship.

I won't be able to share to you all the rules but I would like to end this post with ...

Indeed I have so many things I did ask NANA about, but she told me that I won't be able to handle the answers or I might not be satisfied with the outcomes. She was right back then, and Thanks to her I was inspired to have a post like this.

P.S --> a request from someone to insert this vid. here ♥

♥anzeid

A special request

I do blogging for one thing : " I enjoyed it ". But for today i'll be making a post for "SOMEONE SPECIAL and EXTRAORDINARY" #choz ... bitaw ...I'll be making an exception for my blog... 

I dedicate this post to my BEST of the best of friends ever who broke my heart once and will never again... 

I seemingly thought we would never end up being the most hilarious team up ever and that when we combine forces it just makes everything PERFECT!... *insert alou's deviant smile here* ... Seriously! we're not Power rangers but indeed our powers are overly empowered by our friendship ... and I thank God ♥ that you're that you're my friend and always been there for me through thick and thins, ups and downs, in sickness and in health and to my life's wonderful journey and adventure.

Well, as I said over and over again ! this post is for my BESTFRIEND and not for me... Note : This person I'm referring to is a HE! but with a heart of a she ...  (I know this would sound gayish) but I presumed that he's alright with it (leave a comment if you're not)... HAHAHA

TEASER 

He's Mark Anthony Jaro-Labriaga ... He's a guy with the most wholesome attitude, as in, (TANAN, halos nana jud sa iya)... One of the persons I really look up to. Kung sa ato pa... Total Package... #char... He's handsome as some would say, he's caring, resilient, patient, friendly, but apart from that he could be silly, lame, funny, vague, and cracky (*new word nana xa karun, HAHAHA... meaning he loves to crack jokes and make other people laugh their hearts out)...

Kaon lang japun pero SLIM & HEALTHY

The reason of this post is to ENDORSE him... YES! you heard it right... He'll be vying for the position on a political party and as member of the Sangguniang Bayan 20 years form now! ... HAHAHA XD... ^joke^

If you wanna be friends with him ... Click HERE !!!

*Serious mode : "Why i love this guy?"  Apparently, there are lots of reasons behind it, if curious here are some:

1. He makes me feel like I'm his sister.

2. He would never afford to hurt me. (kei MAHAL ko... gets??? HAHAHA)

3. He is always there when you need him and just a text away.

4. He's on the go.

5. He can be my alter ego.

6. He's fun to be with.

7. He won't let you down (rexona).

8. He always make me laugh until I choke to death ( SRSLY crazy).

9. He's an idiot sometimes and I love it.

10. He always stays purposely in love no matter happens. 

11. He's a dancer like me  ♥

. . .

( I put only 11 reasons because these reasons denotes your first name which has ELEVEN letters...  Ihapon dayun na niya karun ) HAHAHA XD

... (those three dots (emphasis on the 3) signifies that I have countless reasons why I love you! and I won't be nagging about the specific numbers because you are an EXEMPTION! )

(BILIB jud ko sa iya fighting spirit and nevertheless sa iyang PERSEVERANCE. Truly, He was God's gift to me ♥ _______________- ♥ Ü

Before I end this ♥

P.S __ I'll be ending this post here ... ngunit, subalit, datapwat ... I'm going to update it from time to time

♥anzeid

Regrets???

You might be wondering why this post is entitled "REGRETS" ... Perhaps I would like to tell you how and why did I came up with this...

It's been what FOUR (4) years ago... 2008, if I wasn't mistaken. My parents let me choose a career-slash-course to take up in college. Concern with the idea that someday I'll be the one to take responsibility for my parents. Indeed I was asked to "CHOOSE MY PATH"

I decided to take up Bachelor in Elementary Education major in SPECIAL EDUCATION.  To be honest, I wasn't really inspired to be a teacher and no one really inspired me to be one. And since at that time, this course was very in demand and that the world was currently in need of teachers. ^^CHALLENGE ACCEPTED^^. Moreover this course was new at Xavier University, if I could still remember it was running for 4 years at that time. 

    During that time others would always ask me:

                " Nganu kana imo gipili nga Course? Kay Nganu ... Gusto ka Mu-Abroad?"

Yes ! I can never change the fact that SPED is equals (=) to ABROAD ! and ABROAD means "MORE INCOME, HELLO DOLLARS". You see the mentality of some Filipinos - that they would dare die to go Abroad rather than just be contented to work here in their own country! I was a bit moved by this and never  did I hesitate to give up my course or any how SHIFTED. I came to a point that there will be "NO TURNING BACK".

     So where in hell is REGRET??? 

The big R started when I was realizing;

              * Can I survive this one ?

              * Don't I deserve this course or is it the other way around?

              * Is this what I really plan to do with my life?

Then I was inspired by what my closest friends and my family told me

Don't Worry "BE HAPPY"

Definitely this Girl was right, " HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE " .  Being happy doesn't only co notates smiles and attitude but as well as choices, choices that might somehow shape our personality, career and character ! 

^Ika nga 

You only live ONCE !

Yes baby, ONCE only not twice nor thrice. So I have to be careful with my choices because someday I might be able to REGRET it! 

I know school will always be there for me, so even if I decided to take up a second course or do my Masters Degree, it will always be available as long as the school lives. This was a chance of a lifetime, I promise ♥ MOM ! I won't "R" this! 

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I would love to share about my EPIC FAIL moment when I entered college. I was excited for a fact with my course... too excited that I tend to forget to fully read and understand the course syllabus ( that pink long paper who was for sale @ 1php).  That form which contains the subjects plus the total units to take up for the desired course. I took for granted the summer classes and focus on the semesters, I did not fully embraced the idea that I need to undergo the 3 summer classes of my entire life in Teaching course. "You see how stupid and foolish I've been". Very confident that I did not took up my first summer class, again did I "R" it?............................................. (Seriously...) YES ! (teary eye mode). This was really the MAJOR MAJOR MAJOR REASON why I 'm still stuck up here in college "Kulang lang naman ako nang summer, pre-requisite man jud ang uban subjects". Most Probably, I'll be extending my college for half a year only and take a rest at the second semester to wait for the graduation rites next year! 

I will never deny the fact that I got insecure with my batch mates in high school who will be graduating tomorrow (YES) TOMORROW , March 24, 2012 at Xavier University Gymnasium. Still, I'm happy for them, they did a far good job in taking it to the end. God was pleased with their untiring efforts, they DESERVE this one! 

Congratulations ♥ cc: HAROLD FLOREN

NEXT TIME : IT WILL BE MY TURN!

but

As of Today :

It's not yet the end . *smiles

Everything happens for a reason and God will never leave you in prison. Hope for the best next time because the BEST is yet TO COME /

*smile*

(I've shared this photo because I love my hair here and to tell you I have no more REGRETS in life)

♥anzeid

SCORPIO

Description:

Reputed to be the "most powerful" sign of the zodiac, Scorpios lead fate filled lives and have intense and dramatic personal relationships. Even as children Scorpios are often found to be wise beyond their years. Many astrologers call this the sign of the "oldest souls". Old and wise beyond the average, Scorpios often know all the answers, except sometimes; they too often have difficulty finding what they need to develop their own happiness. 

Passion, desire and power go hand in hand for Scorpios. Their biggest challenge and test in life is choosing between the power of love and the love of power. Coming to grips with their extraordinary emotional depths and sensitivity isn't easy for those around them. They are different from all other zodiac signs and this difference has them walking, working and loving to a different beat. Others can often live with a Scorpio partner for years, but not really know them. Much to do with a Scorpio remains ever secret. Their eyes often blaze with feelings that words never express, and beware on the days or nights they hide their feelings behind dark glasses, there is likely to be a storm of some kind brewing. When you deal with a Scorpio you have to always deal with them on a psychic intuitive level. They often wear a mask. Too often they say "no" when they really mean "yes". They have contrary natures. Once they find true love they can be the most faithful dedicated of all partners but fall out badly with a Scorpio and you are likely to find they will never forget or forgive. 

Most Scorpios are winners. The main thing they have to worry about is their attitudes, which make up their mind powers and can either make or break them. When they are negative about something or someone, or critical of themselves, they can tend to get in their own way. 

Scorpios operate on three levels of soul evolvement; adding up to three distinctively different types of Scorpios. The first level is the Scorpion. This is the least evolved and most drawn toward using their powers the wrong way. The criminal element of Scorpio comes under this level. Then there is the eagle - the highflying, entrepreneurial, successful Scorpio, who seems able to rise above adversity and transform bad-times into good. Then the highest expression of this sign is the Phoenix Resurrected. These Scorpios are detached and extremely powerful. They are wise beyond their years and act as leaders and are an inspiration to others. Quite frequently a Scorpio goes through the three levels of evolvement in one lifetime - but the levels can operate out of sequence. 

Source :  http://www.psychicguild.com/horoscopes_zodiac.php?sign=Scorpio

Proud to be born as a SCORPIO

Breaking Free

My college days haven't end yet but I luckily have spent 4 years already as of today (Finally! a record) 
P.S > Dili baya jud sayun ang college! 


I could smell Summer approaching! ( SRSLY!) from Facebook status to tweets in twitter...
This summer I'm gonna BREAK FREE! I'll go far beyond the bars... bars of our house... (as if may bar) Before the summer class is about to open ... I wanted to enjoy first... maybe a little bit like this (see photos below)

As if kabalo mag skate-boarding

I wanted to travel before my summer class starts... I had an offer from my bestfriend to travel with her and with her family ... (I crossed my fingers) I would definitely be there... if Mommy permits >;<






♥anzeid

Cora's Night Out ♥

It's exactly 10:00 pm at my clock. I just got home from the mall, where I watched the movie "Corazon: ang Unang Aswang". I got curious about the movie a bit before watching it, silly because the movie is totally predictable, though I got these huge fascinations about urban legends and horror stories, >':< ... I planned to watch this a week ago with my boyfriend but he refused due to some personal things he need to attend to, so I hurriedly texted my girls, my girlfriends to watch the movie with me this week. The plan was fixed to be Thursday but Yek2x told me she won't be available... So kanina, she texted to have it later at 4pm... without further a "do I said go... well that's a yes...

Through the movie, the people were shouting every time Corazon would try to sneak out and do these gruesome and cruel moments in the movie, yet they were screaming and at the same time laughing. I was quite vague in a moment and there goes the Aswang jumping and stabbing and killing those poor child, I really 

thought I'll be scared at first ... Eventually I did not expect I went laughing through out the end... HAHAHAHA...

We ended up with a picture together outside the theater hall and took a little snapshot of it. 

with Jertags (in red) & Yek2x (in pink)

This photo was taken by the employee of the mall who had just passed by and where I insisted him to take our picture ... Sounds rude? ayt? hehehe... 

Dinner at Jollibee Gateway 




I posted these because I had so much fun... Fun when you have your True Friends around !

♥anzeid

When it comes to LOOOOve ♥

Have you ever felt like he was the one for you? That there was the force within you that pulls and creates magnetic waves that attracts another poles? 

Silly but a bit hilarious? I used to read books full of love stories and watch fairy tale movies when I was a young but suddenly I bumped into a very huge and strong wall, and just realized that "happy endings only happens in fairy tales!" and that "forever is a lie" ... Well, you might hate me for being a drastically hopeless romantic creature but this is just ME ..." I'm not a book to be judge of" eseii >sounds familiar ..ayt? Still I'm happy for Kate Middleton and Prince William ,,, the modern day fairy tale characters.

Well, I've known this guy for 12 years now. He was my classmate in elementary, we became good friends, I was a quite a bully in elementary, <I barely can't remember a thing>. There comes this guy who would tease me everyday and pisses me of. No one ever thought that SOMEDAY, he'll become my BOYFRIEND ♥

yES! I am referring to the guy that I am super to the max in love with but I'm not obsessed <if mistakenly interpreted>! Clearly, I never set standards when it comes to LOOOOve ♥ ... basta ... if I'm comfortable with him and we used to understand each other and he's not just some stranger, why not take a risk? esei... fall in love but not that deep and not that too much ... 

My parents would usually brag me about "Nag-uban napud mo?, how was the date? unsa man? nag-bulag mo? nag-uban mo ganeha?" blah...blah...blah... I'm sure naka-experince napud ka ana!

If he is really the one Lord gimme a SIGN ♥ ... eseeyyyy... well sabi nga nila "You have to work for it" kei LOVE man lageh!

I love my boyfriend dearly, I guess he knows about it, nevertheless I want the whole world to share my predicament ♥

Learn to take care of everything and everyone around you, someday somehow you'll be needing them ♥ 

♥ anzeid

The hardest people to find and TREASURE

It saddens me that I was able to be left behind :'(
well... 7 months na lang gyud nga pag-antos! weeee! ... Hello October ! Hell-O LET ! Hell-O work!


These are the people I consider that "HUMOT NA ANG TOGA" para sa ila... XD


Let's start of with my good-bitter friends in Highschool:

Yes... Hello? the guy beside me is Mr. Al ron John Casino 

(Feeling pogi/gwapo ng Tagoloan)

Mr. Casino (can't write the - line above the letter n > my lappy is not cooperating)... He used to be the guy whom you'll expect that silence could be an answer or should I say he's just keeping a Sshhhh ... in every person's mind and let them think about it. He's tough and very valiant! He used to remind me of my ex-boyfriend >they use to have the same surnames ... >.< ooohh! whatever

Harold and Emem

(True Blue-Tagoloanons)

Mr. Harold Floren, was our Class Valedictorian, indeed smart, wise, brilliant, a great leader, gentleman and reliable. He cracks intelligent jokes somehow he still looks HANDSOME! oh hail! I bow to his ! 

The pretty gal beside her is Edbee Mae Sebastian, Emem as she was usually called, malambing ^sweet^, outgoing, pretty, *serbisyong totoo* hahaha... coz she's a KKP Volunteer... a LOYAL one! ...

Kai Burgos ♥

All hail to the queen... esey! basta c Krisha na gani na "KILIG to the Bones na dayun" ...Aside from being intelligent,  Kai ♥ has the most awesome lovelife in the world! ... (U might be wondering why there's a ♥ beside her name), Kai has always the heart of the many not only to his man, but to the people who became a part of her even with special kids. I just really look up to this person, she strives for the best and never give up the rest. 

 This is Jamie :D

Jessa Marie Ragandang "Jamie" in short ... ay di pala "TALL man diay ni c jamie .... hehehehe... sweet, always smiles, GWAPA" y mupalag ?! kei tinuod bya?! hahaha... I love her company jud ... The BEST! ... 

"Dili arte, maldita, kuripot,isnabera!" mao na xa! God's Gift jud!

ADVANCE ♥ CONGRATULATIONS 

guysss... JESUS LOVES YOU DEARLY !!!

AMDG+

Zzzz... my eyes ache na! esey. Time Checked: 11:20pm ... katulgon na jud bitaw ko,..

PART 1 

Back to my status quo "READING"

Recently, I saw this movie trailer of the "Hunger Games", indeed I became the curious little girl who dearly wanted to save her little pennies just to buy that book. A friend told me that "Its nice to read the book first rather than watch the movie directly". She was making a good statement, everything was stated in the book and not that all happens in the movie were really in the movie. I am making a CAPTION " that before the movie shows up in theaters most probably by next month, I could have possibly finish the book".

Yes! I am reading :))) AGAIN! ... I remember the last books I've read where "Saving my First Kiss" and "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus"-> This book I almost finished this one but due to time constraints and some school obligations, I wasn't! 

Luckily, right now, I would not spend a penny the book I wanted to buy, ever since my mom and dad bought me an Android Touch Phone *laughing distinctively (name of the phone -not to mention), I became a fond of downloading EBOOKS, these are electronic books that you can easily read with just the touch to the download button. 

Since summer is fast approaching and thinking I'll be stuck here at my room and at the house 24/7 is quite a torture, instead of > lurking < around *hehehe,,, funny coz I'm not a vampire* ...instead of spending it out of town, I'll just spend it reading lots and lots of books, I guess it would exercise my brain a lot, I need to be Bombarded with vocabularies, in connection with my profession. --, Silly ? ayt? ... SRSLY! I'm counting on it. 

♥ anzeid

Alone but never left out

Cheers to the most random and spontaneous people I have met...

Hooray for the foods I have ate ...

Break Free for that every day God has given to me

I am indeed a High-spirited girl, a pain in the a^^... a kicka^^

I'm vicious but not spoiled, I'm strong when I'm stepped on.

I'm tactless but I am keen, I am weak but I know my God is strong.

♥ anzeid